Getting your wife or girlfriend to give you a blow job can be hot and sexual. However, it is a lot of work for them. Make the experience more enjoyable for them by making sure they are turned on before they start.
This will be best done through open and clear communication with your partner.
1. Make it fun
Getting your wife to give you a blowjob is not an easy task. It’s often a matter of communication and making it fun for her. She may enjoy giving head but be nervous about it. She might worry about whether she’s going to orgasm, or if her partner will like it.
She might also be worried about her abilities when it comes to oral sex, so she’ll be afraid to push too hard or make you uncomfortable. This is where it’s important to communicate with her and show her that you’re in control of the situation – This part is credited to the portal’s author Seductive Whispers.
Some women are even afraid to touch a man’s penis, and this can be a real turnoff for some men. You can make the experience more fun for her by guiding her and showing her what it feels like. You can use different sex positions that will stimulate both of you at the same time. This will make her want to give you more head, and she’ll love it when she does. It’s mutual masturbation at its best!
2. Don’t be selfish
Many men like oral sex but are afraid to ask for it. They worry that they might turn their partner off or hurt her feelings. This is understandable. After all, oral sex is pretty intimate. But it is possible to ask for a blowjob in a way that is both romantic and respectful of her feelings.
One of the best ways to do this is to simply talk about it. Let her know that you enjoy oral sex and would love to have her in your mouth. Then, ask her if she’s interested in trying it out. If she says yes, then great! But if she doesn’t, don’t be angry or accusatory.
Another thing to do is to make it clear that you’re not interested in competing with her or “manscaping” her. Be kind and respectful, and she’ll be more likely to give you a great blowjob. And finally, be sure to give her a lot of attention while she’s giving you a great blowjob. Start with the inner thigh area, then move to the vulva, and finish with the head (which is also a great erogenous zone). This will make her feel special and desirable.
3. Be humble
If your girlfriend never gives you her head, it’s important to talk to her about it. She may have a legitimate reason for not wanting to give it to you, but you can probably work out a solution. If she’s worried about getting her penis dirty, you can ask her to trim it really short all over (yes, that includes the balls) so she doesn’t have any hair clinging to her cock.
Another thing you can do is tell her how good it feels to give you her head and that you appreciate it. This will make her feel good about herself, which in turn will likely make her want to do it more.
If she’s worried that you won’t enjoy it, don’t compare her to other girls you have hooked up with. This is just plain mean and will only put her on the defensive. Instead, reassure her that you will be happy and talk about ways you can enjoy it together. This will also help her get over any negative associations she has with giving you her head.
4. Don’t be too rough
There is a chance that she does not enjoy giving head because of some past experience. If this is the case, then you will need to be a gentle, patient, and considerate recipient so that she can get over her fear and learn to love it. You need to take your time and never be rough – this will only scare her away from ever trying it again.
You can try to make it more enjoyable for her during the session by kissing, cuddling, and other tricks that you have been using in your seduction routine. This will give her the pleasure that she needs to be able to feel comfortable about going down on you.
If you are not getting oral sex, then you need to sit down and talk about it. Explain that you want to give head more often and see if there is any way that she can make it better for you. If she can’t, then you need to respect her decision and move on. But if she can, then you can work out a schedule that works for both of you.
5. Be patient
Some ladies just don’t like to give a blowjob. They may have had a bad experience in the past or it might just not turn them on. If this is the case, be patient and don’t push her too hard. Instead try to find other ways to satisfy her sexual needs. This could be through stroking her back or legs, kissing her neck, moaning, licking her body, arching her back or touching her face.
Eventually she will start looking forward to your kisses and licks on her inner thighs, crotch and clitoris. Licking her vulva is a good place to start before moving on to her inner thighs.
Oral sex can be one of the most intense and satisfying ways to get an orgasm. Some women love it, some despise it – and others are in between. It’s important to know how to ask your wife for a blowjob that will please her and make her want more. If she says no, respect that and try something else – be it switching positions or even just penetrative sex.
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