When it comes to oral sex, the old fashioned blow job is tried and true. A good blowjob can trigger orgasms and ejaculation and is easy to give once you’ve learned the basics.
It’s important to communicate with your partner during oral sex and ask what they like or don’t. For example, some men like to skip foreplay and just lick the shaft or glans of the penis.
1. Make Him Cumpy
One of the biggest things you can do to give him an epic blowjob is to make sure he’s cumpy. That means getting his cock, balls, and anus nice and wet with your spit. This is especially fun if you’re in a position that allows you to massage those parts, like the classic “flirting girl” sex pose.
You can also try gently stroking the areas around his penis with your hands or lips while you lick and kiss him. This will trigger those same nerves and cause him to climax even more, which is great for you both.
And of course, you can always add a sex toy or other forms of hand play for extra pleasure. Just remember that this isn’t for everyone, so be sure to communicate with your partner and ask them what they want out of their experience. They may be super sensitive or not enjoy it at all, so it’s important to communicate with them and respect their boundaries.
2. Make Him Squirm
There’s nothing hotter than a woman who talks dirty during her blow job, especially when she does it while stroking her cock or anus. It’s a sure-fire way to get him in the mood for oral sex and makes him want you even more because it feels like his wildest fantasy is coming true.
Another tip to make him squirm is to lick him gently with lots of saliva before you take him in your mouth. This is a great way to tease him and build sexual tension before you take him in your mouth, plus it feels really naughty when you leave trails of saliva connected to his cock.
It’s important to mix up the techniques you use during a blowjob so it doesn’t become boring or repetitive. You can do this by trying new things, such as sucking him in the cheek or chin instead of your mouth or using your hands (check out this guide for everything you need to know about giving a handjob). This will keep it fresh and give you a lot of pleasure to share with him.
3. Make Him Thrill
A good blowjob can make him feel like he’s in the middle of a wild ride – one that could lead anywhere. This feeling of excitement and vulnerability, combined with the knowledge that you are in control, can create a powerful sexual tension that cranks up his pleasure as he climaxes.
While it’s tempting to focus on how to give him the best blowjob inside your mouth, the truth is that hands play an important role as well. “Oral sex isn’t just about your mouth and tongue, it’s also about your hands,” Kristen Mark, a sex and relationship researcher, educator, therapist, and contributing expert for the sexual-wellness app Coral, tells SELF.
She suggests using your fingers to stroke up and down the bottom two thirds of his shaft, along with licking it (along with the head or fondling his testicles). Another great idea is to lick the top of his shaft while taking it into your mouth, or even just your lips (with lots of saliva). This creates an intense cooling sensation that will tease him and make him crave more.
4. Make Him Moan
When you lick him down to his glans, you’re sending signals straight to the medulla oblongata. That’s why moaning during a blow job feels so damn good.
It’s a great way to build sexual tension and tease him, so that he’s practically begging you to take his penis in your mouth. To start, lick a small patch of skin on the shaft of his penis and then blow on it. This will create a wet, cooling sensation that’s sure to make him squirm.
Then, move on to licking the head and shaft, gently kissing it, or stroking it with your tongue. This will add a lot of pleasure and increase the amount of time his cock is in your mouth. To take it even further, try adding suction to the mix. It’s a game-changer. And that’s how you give him a blowjob that’s truly unforgettable.
5. Make Him Scream
Although the mouth and tongue are a huge part of oral sex, it’s important to use your hands, too. This will add tightness and rhythm.
Try licking them to make them super wet, or gently kissing his cock while stroking the shaft and fondling the testicles. These are sexy and will make him moan with pleasure, too.
It also feels good to talk dirty during a blow job and look into your man’s eyes, as well. This will make him feel like you’re making his fantasy real and he can’t hide his excitement.
Remember that this whole experience is supposed to be for your partner, so don’t be afraid to bring in a vibrator and/or play with yourself while you pleasure them. It’s okay to be silly and have a good laugh, too. Just don’t forget to breathe and enjoy yourself! Then you’ll be able to give your partner the best blowjob possible.
6. Make Him Laugh
If you can make a guy laugh, it’s going to be extremely hard for him to resist your advances. There are plenty of ways to get him laughing, including telling him a joke or acting silly. You could also try asking him questions that are meant to make him laugh.
One of the biggest mistakes that people make when giving a blow job is not being consistent. The more you practice, the better your technique will become. Try to stick with some of your favorite moves, but don’t be afraid to add a few new ones to the mix.
Oral sex is the wild west of sex acts — there are so many different ways to give your partner pleasure. You can lick, suck, kiss, stroke, grind on and sing to your partner’s genitals, but the most important thing is to focus on what feels good to you.
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