Sex toys can be daunting for beginners, but there’s a lot to explore! From rabbit vibrators to anal beads and more, the best sex toys for beginners offer a variety of sensation.
This beginner-friendly dildo has a slim shaft that inserts into the clitoris for G-spot stimulation. It also has a flared base that makes it easy to stick it on any surface or attach it to a harness for strap-on play.
The Original Magic Wand
The Magic Wand, originally called the Hitachi, is a classic. It’s a 9-inch long formidable white shaft with an inch of flexible blue plastic that holds the massaging head in place. It was designed to look like a baseball bat and first launched in Japan in 1968 as a neck massager for sore muscles, but it didn’t take long for famed sex educator Betty Dodson to cling onto this thing and turn it into a clitoral stimulator.
It delivers rumbly vibrations to your clitoral nerve endings, and it can be used solo or with partners. Boyajian recommends rubbing or humping it against your vulva, grinding it against the pressure of your hips, and using it during partnered penetration (doggie style works especially well).
It’s operated by a simple one button interface that makes it really easy to use. And despite needing to be plugged into an outlet, its cord is long enough that you can use it in bed or wherever you want without worrying about the toy running out of power. It also comes in unlabeled packaging, so you can keep the contents of your sex toy a secret from nosy neighbors or roommates.
The Lelo Sona 2
The Lelo Sona 2 is often referred to by fans as “the Rolls Royce of clitoral toys,” and it does look classy. This toy uses a sonic vibration technology to stimulate the clitoris. It is gentle enough that it can be used multiple times and doesn’t become sore.
The toy has 12 sonic settings that vary in intensity and pulse patterns. It also has a cruise control that senses when the user reaches climax and automatically increases the motor’s speed. This is an impressive feature that is a great solution for those who have found that some vibrators struggle to keep up once the user climaxes.
Users can start off by applying a lot of lube to their clitoral area before using the toy. They can then position the sonic mouth either on or next to the clitoral hood and begin to play. The toy will start to cause a sucking sensation that feels similar to oral sex. It is recommended that users rinse the toy before and after every use. This can be done by running it under warm water or using a sex toy cleaner like the Sliquid Shine.
The Lovehoney Jelly Dildo
It can be hard to find beginners-friendly sex toys when you’re not familiar with dildos or other internal toys. The Lovehoney is a good place to start. This squishy, soft-skin dildo has a bullet vibrator inside and is designed to mould to the shaft for G-spot stimulation and P-spot pleasure. You can also use it for clitoral stimulation.
The Lovehoney has a flared suction base, so it’s anal-safe and can be used with a harness for strap-on play. It’s also easy to clean and water-resistant, so you can enjoy it in the bath or shower for a more immersive experience.
This toy is a little firmer than the others on this list, but it’s still suitable for beginners. The curved shape is more realistic and provides intense, orgasmic stimulation for your cock. It also has a head for deep G-spot massage and a soft, stretchy outer layer. The only drawback is that you have to add lots of lube to get the best results, because the silicone can be grabby. The Lovehoney is also a bit more expensive than some other options, but it’s well worth the price for its versatility and orgasmic feel.
The Normal Billie Palm Vibe
Dame Products understands that figuring out how to use a vibrator can be a little overwhelming, so they created this super gentle palm vibe with first-timer needs in mind. It’s waterproof, made with medical-grade silicone and offers a range of patterns to try.
It has a broad surface area that can be used to massage erogenous zones and a pointed nub to target specific areas like the clitoris. You can also choose to lock the vibration for uninterrupted pleasure, and press again to cycle through the different modes if you want to switch things up.
As any experienced toy user knows, sex toys are best enjoyed with a little bit of water-based lube. Dame recommends applying it before attempting to use Billie, but if you’re a little nervous, they also include a sample with the toy.
Aussie sex toy start-up NORMAL is currently running a stocking stuffer sale, offering 25% off their entire collection of body-safe and silky-smooth modern sex toys and accessories (excluding bundles). Check out NORMAL’s popular Pom – a squishy, flexible vibrator that fits into your palm, Eva II, the hands-free, beginner-friendly clitoral air pulse toy, Quinn, or Flynn, NORMAL’s sweet, sky blue c-ring.
The Satisfyer Man 2.0
If you want a men’s clitoral stimulator that is a little bit different than the usual Fleshlight style, this might be just what you need. This toy uses touch-free air waves to stimulate your clitoris and genitals. It also features 14 tingling vibration programmes and an insertion length of about 7 cm. It is easy to clean with soapy water and can be easily disassembled for even easier access to all the angles.
This toy is a little bit bigger than the Cobra Libra and slightly deeper too. It looks really sleek and is made from soft, medical-grade silicone. It can be used by yourself or with a fluid-bonded partner and is suitable for all genders. You can easily turn off the clitoral stimulation with the button on the side and the air pressure can be varied too. It is waterproof so you can use it in the bath or shower and it’s easy to keep clean with a squirt of your favourite toy cleaner. You can get a lot of exciting orgasms from this sex toy and it’s great for couples who want some foreplay.
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