There are many different positions that can be used to enhance pleasure and make the experience less intimidating. The best position for first time sex will depend on your comfort level and what feels good to you.
The missionary or spooning position is a great option as it allows the partner on top to control speed and depth. The reverse cowgirl can also be used to stimulate the erogenous zones.
The Missionary
Many people feel tense and nervous even when they’re in the right mood for sex, so it’s important to choose a comfortable position. Especially for first-timers, the Missionary is one of the best positions because it allows the person who is being penetrated to control how deep and fast they want things to be. The woman on top also has a lot of room to move, which can make things more exciting and more intimate.
Another way to make the experience more enjoyable for everyone involved is by using a good amount of lubrication. This will help to reduce the pain that can be caused by anal and vaginal penetration. It’s also helpful to start with foreplay, as this can increase the sense of pleasure and arousal that will help both partners to relax and enjoy themselves more.
The Dragon position is another great option for first-timers, as it makes it more comfortable for the penetrating partner to enter from behind. To do this, the person being penetrated lies on their stomach with a few pillows under their pelvis, and their partner lays on top of them, mimicking their position. Then they can insert themselves into the vulva with circular motions instead of deeper, faster thrusts. However, Hope reminds us that the Dragon might not be suitable for all couples, particularly if one of them has a very small penis.
The Cowgirl
The cowgirl sex position is one of the best positions for first time sex because it’s so easy to get comfortable in. “With the person on top being in control of how deep, slow, and wide they want to go, it’s easy for them to focus on their partner’s clitoral stimulation during penetration,” McDevitt says.
This position usually involves the person being penetrated lying on their stomach with a few pillows inserted under their pelvis. Their penetrating partner then lies on top of them, mimicking their position, and enters them from behind. This gives a more intimate feel as well as a unique view of their vulva. For more clitoral stimulation, the person on top can also lift their hips and thighs to grind against their partner’s vulva.
Using this position also allows the person being penetrated to play with their partner’s tits and ass during penetration which is incredibly satisfying. And, it’s a great position for beginners as it’s less likely to cause pain because of the way it prevents deep cervical penetration. Another benefit is that it can give both partners orgasms, since clitoral stimulation is what most women need to reach climax anyway. Plus, the person on top can use a vibrator to increase or decrease the intensity of their thrusts. This can also help the person on bottom avoid getting tired as quickly.
The Spoon
This gentle sex position is great for first timers as it provides an intimate cuddle. Both partners lie on their sides, face to face with their crotches aligned. As they lift their top leg slightly, the man can enter from behind. This sexy and comfortable position can also be very stimulating, allowing the woman to control the speed and depth of penetration.
Unlike the missionary and cowgirl positions, the spooning position eliminates eye contact which can make some people feel uncomfortable. It can also be used to initiate masturbation.
The man on top can use his penis, toy, and fingers to penetrate the clitoris. He can also stimulate the clitoral hood with his mouth. This position allows both partners to go as slow or fast as they want, making it a great option for beginners.
Regardless of which sexy position you choose, it’s important to start off with lots of foreplay and clear communication. It’s also essential to use lubrication and start slow. The most important thing is that you and your partner(s) enjoy the experience of losing your virginity. Whether you go oral, anal, vaginal or both, it’s an amazing experience that shouldn’t be rushed or regretted.
The Clitoral
If you’re a woman and it’s your first time, the thought of touching “down there” can be scary and intimidating. It doesn’t have to be that way, though. If you have a lubricant handy, you can start by using your finger to feel around the clitoral hood. It’s a small nub that looks like a pea, but it’s pretty powerful. You can stroke it up and down or move it in circles. Playing with this area can stimulate it to the point of an orgasm without penetration.
If a man is putting in the sexy work, he can also hold you and rub your clitoral hood with his hand. That can feel amazing – but make sure he doesn’t push too hard or he could cause you pain. It’s a good idea to tell him this beforehand.
Trying out different sex positions can help your intimate encounters to be more intense and more fun. But, remember that it’s not just about sexy positions; it’s also about building up a level of trust between you and your partner(s), having some unembarrassed conversations, and feeling as comfortable as possible. So, be brave and have a great time! You’ll thank us later. Promise!
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