If you and your girl are in a sexual rut, try some new sex positions to surprise her. These fun sex moves will increase intimacy, boost orgasms and help your session last longer.
Aim for clitoral stimulation with this spooning position (also called stallion style). The penetrating partner spreads their top leg and straddles the bottom one while thrusting.
1. Crab Walk
This one isn’t nearly as complicated as it sounds, but it’s a new twist on the spoon position that adds a whole lot of clitoral stimulation. Essentially face-sitting lite, it involves the giver assuming the spoon pose and the receiver straddling them and wrapping their legs around their back.
Then, as you rock forward and backward (in a controlled shuffle that’ll feel more like your high school gym class than a workout), the receiver lowers themselves down to meet the giver. It’s a ah-mazing way to shake up oral sex, and works especially well with vibrators like the bullet vibe. It’s also a great way to break in a new partner.
2. Missionary with a Pillow
While new sex positions can be fun, sometimes tried-and-true classics work for a reason. One example is missionary.
To spice up this position, try putting a pillow on her lower back to elevate her hips a bit. This can help you get in closer and deeper for a satisfying orgasm, as well as improve the angle of your penis against her g-spot to stimulate her clitoris.
She can also hold her legs together for a tighter fit, which can create even more friction. He can then enter her from behind and explore her erogenous zones—like the lips and inner labia—for extra stimulation. He can also use his hands for oral sex, which can produce more orgasms for many women than penetrative sex.
3. From-Behind-Bend
Women love to feel their man’s hands all over them during sex, so positions that allow him to enter from behind are always popular. Known as doggy style, rear entry, or shower sex, this position is perfect for deep penetration.
This version of the missionary position focuses on the clitoral stimulation that leads to orgasm. Plus, she gets to bend her body in ways that offer more control for both of you. This is also a great position for penetrating in tight spaces or on the go. You can even use a pillow for support. For extra sensual pleasure, dribble water over her back. It’s sure to send her into a frenzy.
4. Wheelbarrow
If your sex life is a bit stale, try this fresh new position. It’s a great combination of the cowgirl and split positions, which gives both partners control over intercourse.
To achieve this, the bottom person lies on their back in a plank position and their partner enters them from behind, straddling one leg between their pelvic bones. It’s also possible to perform seated wheelbarrow, which is a bit easier on the shoulders.
This is another position that works well for anal and vaginal sex, and the man can even massage her breasts (with her permission, of course). For extra orgasms, he could spank or pull her hair to add some sensory play to this sexy position.
6. Amazon
This position is great for clitoral stimulation, and you can play with her anus as well. The trick is to pull her tight for a better fit, and then use your hands to explore the area around her clitoral hood.
Trying new positions can be exciting, thrilling, and even romantic. But it’s important to communicate openly and respectfully with your partner about the experience, and only try things that you both feel comfortable with. It’s also important to respect each other’s boundaries and never force a partner into a sexual position they’re not comfortable with. You can read more about safe and healthy sex practices here. Then enjoy your sexual journey together!
7. Piledriver
If you’ve ever watched porn, then chances are you know all about the WTF, do-your-body-parts-really-bend-like-that sex position known as Piledriver. This kink-y position requires lots of physical strength, flexibility and stamina from both partners.
The receiver lies on their back, straightens their legs into downward dog (a yoga position), and allows the penetrating partner to enter vaginally or anally. This is also a great position for couples who like to add toys, like vibrators and nipple clamps, to boost the clitoral stimulation.
This is an advanced position, so start slow and be conscious of your body. It’s important not to put too much pressure on your lower back, as this can lead to strain or even fractures.
8. Straddle
It’s important to remember that new sex positions require open and honest communication and respect for your partner’s boundaries. Trying new positions is most effective when it’s done in a safe, respectful manner that allows both partners to explore their sexual desires in a way that is fun and fulfilling.
Take your missionary rut up a notch with this steamy twist on the classic position. With this variation, she can rock back and forth on your thighs, creating friction between your clitoris and her pubic mound area—a sensation that’ll blow her mind. This is a great position for oral sex, too. For extra intensity, add a pillow to the mix.
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